Monday, August 2, 2010
Ask Banshee!
Wild Banshee of The Day
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My timeline was filled to the brim with fuckery, courtesy of @NotUrDiaryBitch
Please click and follow her and her band of goons. They have no mercy on anyone stepping out of line on Twitter.
#dead
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Sunday, August 1, 2010
Side Chicks/Ugly Chicks Are Winning!
So this weekend proved that sometimes side chicks and ugly chicks do prevail. This weekend was the weekend of weddings! T.I and Tiny are one of my favorite couples. Tiny has stuck with T.I through thick and thin, and he has finally put a ring a ring on it! *does Beyonce "Single Ladies" hand flip* But there is no doubt that Tiny is on the ugly chicks side. No shade though. Here goes a pic from their fly wedding:
Next up the infamous side chick. Alicia Keys and Swizz Beatz tied the knot this weekend as well. Alicia Keys along with Gabrielle Union, are giving all the "I'm cuter than your wife" side chicks a glimpse of hope. Lets all hope Swizz is beyond his cheating ways, and karma doesn't swing its nasty head around, and give Ms. Keys a dose of her medicine. Here's a pic from the wedding:
Next up the infamous side chick. Alicia Keys and Swizz Beatz tied the knot this weekend as well. Alicia Keys along with Gabrielle Union, are giving all the "I'm cuter than your wife" side chicks a glimpse of hope. Lets all hope Swizz is beyond his cheating ways, and karma doesn't swing its nasty head around, and give Ms. Keys a dose of her medicine. Here's a pic from the wedding:
You Ain't Shit
Just when I thought that fuckery had avoided my macbook today, I ran into this shit.
His ass needs to be beat. His momma's ass needs to be beat. And her momma's ass needs to be beat. This is just a 1:06 of pure, 100% fuckery - no chaser. I wonder where this man grew up and how he thought that this shit was acceptable. Bleach my nigga!!! Really? You couldn't just settle for Dawn or some Frank's Red Hot? You went all the way left.
I swear, I'm never drinking anything that I didn't personally pour myself.
Ant let's not get on his mugshot... Why did he feel the need to pose? I guess he was proud of what he did. Ain't this a bitch.
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Wild Banshee Of The Day
*sighs heavily* Everyone is a model these days. I just don't get it. Who hyped this woman's mind up to give her the courage to even think about modeling? Maria Scott Photography deserves to be shut down for photographing this baboon! If u want to express your thoughts of her, her twitter is: @MsEnvy and she has a fan page -__-: @MsEnvyFanPage
Where were y'all ?????
After reading the blogs and seeing the solidarity of bitterness I must ask where were y'all when my ex boyfriend was trifling? When I needed to be hyped to scratch up cars, bleach clothing, make a fool out of myself to feel good on the inside, where was my mob? Even though I should have let it go and move on with my life where was y'all egging me on to fight for the relationship?
Forget moving on and with time healing my wounds. Even though it's a pattern of him cheating I'm a strong black woman that stands behind my man through thick and thin. I was there from the start so all common sense goes out the window when it comes to him. When I caught him cheating why didn't y'all urge me to blog and put home girl on front street cause guess what he was my man not hers and she need to be embarassed. They say situations are blessing in disguise but guess what I invested years in something that I knew was getting worst but he was my man.
Where were my friends when I needed someone to spy on her Twitter updates, fb status and her tumblur about love? How dare her think she can have happiness with my man. To hell with her having a career or job cause her personal life epitomize who she is as a person. She committed adultry so she should burn @ the stakes forget me and him committing fornication (sex b4 marriage) and y'all bearing witness against y'all neighbors (which is a part of the sins). You know my side that's what counts even though there are four sides in this case ; my side, his side her side and the truth.
My delusions of changing him got interupted by her forcing my man to be with her. They say that black women do not support each they are wrong cause in time of treachery we come together. Even though he moved on and are happy it's not too late... Where are y'all? Don't forget to wish bad Karma for her cause "how you get him is how you are gonna lose him". Cause through it all I would take him back and be on extra guard for these slut buckets trying to take him away from. With y'all help we can shade her and snatch that wig.
Forget moving on and with time healing my wounds. Even though it's a pattern of him cheating I'm a strong black woman that stands behind my man through thick and thin. I was there from the start so all common sense goes out the window when it comes to him. When I caught him cheating why didn't y'all urge me to blog and put home girl on front street cause guess what he was my man not hers and she need to be embarassed. They say situations are blessing in disguise but guess what I invested years in something that I knew was getting worst but he was my man.
Where were my friends when I needed someone to spy on her Twitter updates, fb status and her tumblur about love? How dare her think she can have happiness with my man. To hell with her having a career or job cause her personal life epitomize who she is as a person. She committed adultry so she should burn @ the stakes forget me and him committing fornication (sex b4 marriage) and y'all bearing witness against y'all neighbors (which is a part of the sins). You know my side that's what counts even though there are four sides in this case ; my side, his side her side and the truth.
My delusions of changing him got interupted by her forcing my man to be with her. They say that black women do not support each they are wrong cause in time of treachery we come together. Even though he moved on and are happy it's not too late... Where are y'all? Don't forget to wish bad Karma for her cause "how you get him is how you are gonna lose him". Cause through it all I would take him back and be on extra guard for these slut buckets trying to take him away from. With y'all help we can shade her and snatch that wig.
The Art of Seduction....
"Low self-esteem repels, confidence and self-sufficiency attract. The less you seem to need other people, the more likely others will be drawn to you. Understand the importance of this in all relationships and you will find your neediness easier to suppress. But do not confuse self-absorption with seductive narcissism. Talking endlessly about yourself is eminently anti-seductive, revealing not self-sufficiency but insecurity." -Robert Greene "The Art of Seduction"
Everyone, at some point, seduces another.
Everyone, at some point, is an object of seduction.
The trick is, in either role, to savour the moment.
I ended up reading "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene about two years ago. I loved "48 Laws of Power" so I absolutely had to read this book, and it turned out that this book was even better than the first. It is littered with anecdotes of historical figures who engaged in the act of seduction or were seduced, from Cleopatra to Casanova. After reading it one is equipped with the knowledge to perhaps become a skilled seducer. Overall, this book is great if you like learning, are interested in psychology, and want to develop a mastery of romantic social interaction. However, Greene doesn't specifically point out how you can seduce someone you already know so i decided map that out...
The key is getting the person to see you in a new light:
Step 1. Put distance between you and your 'target'. Don't tell him/her you're distancing yourself, just do it! If your friend likes you they WILL miss you. If they threw the "Let's be friends" card out and doesn't care for you at all, they'll still feel your absence because your loss of interest will wound their ego--that's important.
Step 2. Be different. Alter your appearance, make friends with new types of people, sculpt your body, develop new interests, and date as many people as you can. Try to date only those who are at least as attractive as your target, otherwise they'll look down on you.
Step 3. Reintroduce yourself to your target. Don't approach them directly. It's important that they now come to you. If you haven't talked to him/her in a while, they may have forgotten about you. That's not necessarily a bad thing--maybe the old you was forgettable. But it's a good idea to have maintained an indirect connection with your guy/girl. Maybe you are an aquaintance of one of their friends. Chat with that person occasionally (Don't mention the friend you'll be seducing!) and that person will probably give your target updates about you. Or maybe you work in the same office or have the same circle of friends. In that case, they can witness changes in you first hand. Remember, however, that if you have to see your target regularly it is all the more important to maintain an emotional distance until you're ready for the seduction to really begin. If they suspects that you're improving yourself for him/her or that you're trying to make them jealous, all your hard work will be destroyed.
Now you can reintroduce yourself in one of several ways:
a) Haunt/stalk him/her periphery by attending the places he/she attends without taking much notice of them, making them come to you.
b) Play the "coquette," seeming interested then disinterested, interested then disinterested.
c) arrange a "chance" meeting. I like this one.
d) befriend or date a friend of theirs[side eye, this can get messy].
Once they start to think they didn't know you as well as they thought they did and displays a little interest in the new you, you can start over again and use the tactics outlined in Greene's book.[yea you gotta read the book, you didnt think i would give u all the secrets, did you? lol]
At the end of the day you can't seduce everyone, but I find that whether you suceed or fail usually depends on your observation skills and on how well you implement the tactics. You have to be innovative. No one book can tell you how to seduce every single person in every single situation. Seduction is all about manipulation & deception, feelings can get hurt so proceed with caution.
Everyone, at some point, is an object of seduction.
The trick is, in either role, to savour the moment.
I ended up reading "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene about two years ago. I loved "48 Laws of Power" so I absolutely had to read this book, and it turned out that this book was even better than the first. It is littered with anecdotes of historical figures who engaged in the act of seduction or were seduced, from Cleopatra to Casanova. After reading it one is equipped with the knowledge to perhaps become a skilled seducer. Overall, this book is great if you like learning, are interested in psychology, and want to develop a mastery of romantic social interaction. However, Greene doesn't specifically point out how you can seduce someone you already know so i decided map that out...
The key is getting the person to see you in a new light:
Step 1. Put distance between you and your 'target'. Don't tell him/her you're distancing yourself, just do it! If your friend likes you they WILL miss you. If they threw the "Let's be friends" card out and doesn't care for you at all, they'll still feel your absence because your loss of interest will wound their ego--that's important.
Step 2. Be different. Alter your appearance, make friends with new types of people, sculpt your body, develop new interests, and date as many people as you can. Try to date only those who are at least as attractive as your target, otherwise they'll look down on you.
Step 3. Reintroduce yourself to your target. Don't approach them directly. It's important that they now come to you. If you haven't talked to him/her in a while, they may have forgotten about you. That's not necessarily a bad thing--maybe the old you was forgettable. But it's a good idea to have maintained an indirect connection with your guy/girl. Maybe you are an aquaintance of one of their friends. Chat with that person occasionally (Don't mention the friend you'll be seducing!) and that person will probably give your target updates about you. Or maybe you work in the same office or have the same circle of friends. In that case, they can witness changes in you first hand. Remember, however, that if you have to see your target regularly it is all the more important to maintain an emotional distance until you're ready for the seduction to really begin. If they suspects that you're improving yourself for him/her or that you're trying to make them jealous, all your hard work will be destroyed.
Now you can reintroduce yourself in one of several ways:
a) Haunt/stalk him/her periphery by attending the places he/she attends without taking much notice of them, making them come to you.
b) Play the "coquette," seeming interested then disinterested, interested then disinterested.
c) arrange a "chance" meeting. I like this one.
d) befriend or date a friend of theirs[side eye, this can get messy].
Once they start to think they didn't know you as well as they thought they did and displays a little interest in the new you, you can start over again and use the tactics outlined in Greene's book.[yea you gotta read the book, you didnt think i would give u all the secrets, did you? lol]
At the end of the day you can't seduce everyone, but I find that whether you suceed or fail usually depends on your observation skills and on how well you implement the tactics. You have to be innovative. No one book can tell you how to seduce every single person in every single situation. Seduction is all about manipulation & deception, feelings can get hurt so proceed with caution.
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